DEAR ABBY: My wife’s nephew is getting a divorce. The process appears to be friendly; there was no cheating or abuse. They have two children. Although the soon-to-be “Michelle” was always welcoming and kind, my wife’s family circled the wagons. They no longer speak to her and have made it clear that I can’t either. I think this is not correct.
Michelle did nothing wrong and was friendly to us. My wife says to stick it out and never contact her. I think it’s immature. I realize that my thoughts do not matter. However, I am thinking of contacting Michelle to say that I feel bad for being in this position and to apologize.
I think if I did, I would feel better about myself and she would know that everyone hates her. If something happened to my wife’s nephew, I would have some basis for bonding with the children. what do you think — NAVIGATION CHANGE IN ILLINOIS
DEAR NAVIGATION: I think you are more mature than your wife’s family. You are an adult and should do what you think is right.
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