Dear Annie: A few months ago, I wrote as a “concerned nephew” about a brief bathroom moment—I didn’t wash my hands and slipped on my aunt—that led to embarrassment and misunderstanding that I let weigh on me for years. I just wanted to take a moment to thank you for not only posting my letter, but also for your invaluable response and how much it helped me.
I have PTSD which has led to OCD which can be a bit overwhelming at times. I tend to be very hard on myself for minor accidents. In your reply you stated that I made a “small human error” with my aunt. I have used it in several ways to forgive and not be so hard on myself – and also to give others more grace. It also helped me get into things that are pretty unimportant in the grand scheme of things.
I can’t thank you enough. I appreciate your help, kind words and advice that help so many of us trying to live healthy and meaningful lives. — Finding more joy
Dear Finding More Joy: I can’t thank you enough You enough for your letter! I am so glad that the advice not only helped with this situation, but also brought more peace to other parts of your life. We are often our own harshest critics, but we are all living life for the first time. We do the best we can and we deserve grace, especially in the moments when we fail.
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